The 5 Most Important Questions to Ask Yourself Before the End of the Year

Let’s get real—this time of year can feel like a whirlwind. Between the holiday hustle and endless to-do lists, it’s easy to forget to check in with the most important person—YOU. Before you dive headfirst into the new year, let’s take a beat to reflect, reset, and dream big. Think of this as your personal pep talk and planning session all rolled into one.

I promise—no fluff, no resolutions you’ll abandon by February, just meaningful questions that’ll help you celebrate your wins, let go of the messy stuff, and step into the new year with clarity and purpose. So grab your journal (or even a napkin—we’re not fancy), light a candle, and let’s dig in.

1. What Am I Most Proud of This Year?

Pop the imaginary champagne—it’s time to celebrate YOU. Reflecting on your accomplishments—both big and small—helps reinforce confidence and gratitude. Spoiler alert: You did way more than you think.

Why It Matters: Recognizing your wins builds momentum and reminds you of your resilience and growth.

Journal Prompt: List three moments this year that made you feel proud. How did you show up for yourself in those moments? Don’t be shy—brag a little.

2. What Challenges Did I Overcome, and What Did They Teach Me?

Life wasn’t all sunshine and rainbows—and that’s okay. Challenges shape us, stretch us, and make us stronger. Let’s honor the tough stuff because it made you who you are today.

Why It Matters: Identifying the lessons hidden in hard times helps you carry wisdom forward instead of fear.

Journal Prompt: Write about one challenge you overcame this year. What did it teach you about your strength, patience, or resilience? And bonus points—how would you hype yourself up if you were your own best friend?

3. Where Did I Feel Most Aligned and Fulfilled?

Think about the moments when time disappeared and you felt completely in your element. Those are the breadcrumbs to follow into next year.

Why It Matters: Noticing what lights you up gives you clues about how to create more of those experiences.

Journal Prompt: Describe a moment when you felt deeply fulfilled. What made it so meaningful? And how can you bottle up that magic for the year ahead?

4. What Am I Ready to Let Go Of?

Let’s Marie Kondo your mindset. What habits, patterns, or relationships are no longer sparking joy? It’s time to drop the baggage so you can travel light into the new year.

Why It Matters: Decluttering your mind, habits, and relationships can make room for growth and opportunity.

Journal Prompt: Make a list of thoughts, habits, or relationships you’re ready to release. How will letting go improve your life? Imagine it’s already gone—how does it feel?

5. How Do I Want to Show Up in the New Year?

No pressure, but this is your main character moment. How do you want to feel, act, and move through the world in the next 12 months? Dream big.

Why It Matters: Clarity about your future self makes it easier to set goals and take meaningful action.

Journal Prompt: Write a letter to your future self. What habits, values, and priorities will you carry forward? Bonus points if you make it funny—future you will appreciate the laugh.

Your Next Chapter Starts Now

Reflection is one of the most powerful tools for growth. These five questions are a starting point to help you close out the year with clarity and step into the next chapter feeling grounded, intentional, and inspired. Take your time, be honest, and let your answers guide you toward a year that feels deeply aligned with who you are and who you’re becoming. Cheers to you—you’ve got this.